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2nd Stage of Breast Cancer

At the age of 28 I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer stage 2. As a young single woman I cannot take to under go mastectomy operation and It took me months to accept the reality. Since then I have undergone Chemotheraphy because I have seen worriness inside the home in which I will not suppose to have it becaue poeple told im going get bald, etc.

With the help of some friends from the charismatic organization I was able to accept things or reality that have happened in me then I submit myself to GOD from that moment. It was the most painful experience I've ever had in my entire life, emotionally and physically but with prayers I was able to surpass 4 sessions in my Chemotheraphy out of six. Now I am working in a call center company for a living.

Thank you,


Cebu City, Philippines, Philippines

Fi ve-Time Survivor - Whew What A Journey!

I am a five-time breast cancer survivor. First diagnosed in 1983 at age 32 -- it was unheard of to have breast cancer at 32. I was a single mom of a 2 year old son. I found a phenomenal doctor to take my case and treat me as a person -- not a number. After much consultation, I elected to have a lumpectomy followed by radiation & chemotherapy (protocol at the time). In 1984 -- I found a lump in my other breast. Chose another lumpectomy followed by radiation. In 1990 and 1993 -- two more occurrences and I chose to have a lumpectomy both times since they were found very early. In 1998 -- my last occurrence -- I chose a mastectomy followed by chemotherapy. Whew -- what a journey!

I work the the ACS Reach to Recovery Program, counseling newly diagnosed women, sharing my experiences, pointing them in the right direction to arm themselves with as much information as possible so that they can make an informed decision on their treatment. I have talked with them, laughed with them and cried with them. There is nothing more rewarding than a phone call saying "thanks so much for your help, you got me thru this nightmare". Now they are in the sisterhood and I ask them to "Pay It Forward" and help someone else.

My question has never been "why me" but rather "why not me"? I have been truly blessed so that I can offer hope to those newly diagnosed -- this is not a death sentence. I am also blessed with a fantastic group of friends who supported me by raising money & walking with me for the "Making Stridesr" in Baltimore -- that is the picture I posted. Aren't we just too cute??

Greensburg, PA


I found a lump on my breast i wouldnt go to the doctor afraid of what he might tell me i was very scared.I waited a year before i went to the doctor.A woman at work was going through the same thing she talk me in to go to the doctor on July17 2007 four days after my birthday i found out i had breast cancer.I thought my life was over but i was wrong the chemo nearly kill me i couldnt eat i lost so much weight in and out of the hosptial.There was one man that was always with me and never left me and that was GOD he got me through all that sickness.Nearly two years later i am doing great. I support breast cancer everyone should.Women can beat breast cancer i did and thats the most aweful thing to go through.I pray and help those with cancer.


karen clark
guntersville, AL

A more radical approach that actually saved my life!

I was diagnosed with DCIS in my left breast in July, 2008. I wanted a double mastectomy and reconstruction from the outset. I saw three different breast doctors, and one thought that anything more than a lumpectomy and radiation was overkill.

The doctor whom I chose to do my surgery asked me why I wanted a bilateral mastectomy. I gave him my reasons: (1) I was in good health and very strong right now, and there was no guarantee that if I had a recurrence after a lumpectomy or a single mastectomy, that I would be as strong as I am now, (2) I didn't want radiation, which would be required with a lumpectomy, (3) I did not want to take tamoxifen, which I was told I would need to take if I had any breast tissue, since my tumors were estrogen and progesterone receptive (I have no ovaries so that was not an issue), (4) if I had a single mastectomy, the reconstruction process would involve cutting into the other breast to make them symmetrical, and (5) I was currently employed and had health insurance. He thought they were all good reasons and he agreed to do the double mastectomy.

The pathology came back and we were all shocked to find out that they found invasive lobular cancer (.07 cm) in my prophylactic breast (in addition to lobular cancer in-situ in both breasts that was undetected), which never showed in any of the mammograms or sonograms. My doctor says that this is rare, but I tell this story because it was such an amazing validation on my insistence for the double mastectomy which basically saved my life. My sentinel nodes were clean (both sides were biopsied).

Follow your gut and your heart. I did and it saved my life.

Kathy Ornstein
Madison, NJ

My story

I have always excerised and watched what I ate. People alway quessed my age to be 10-15 years younger than what I was. Three years ago I had an abnormal mammogram and thought no big deal; I was 50years old and nothing like this ran in my family. I had a biopsy a few months later and found I had DCIS stage 0 with a reccomended treatment of a mastectomy. I had never had anesthesia but I have worked as a nurse for 30 years with kids going to surgery all the time. Beside having kids I had never been in a hospital as a patient. This has taught me a valuable lession about family and friends. It also has taught me to live life and love life like there is no tomorrow because it is naive to think there will be a tomorrow. I have been cancer free now for 3 years. My daughter's Godmother had the same diagnosis a few years before me and she has just found out now she has lung cancer. I pray for all of us with this diagnosis that we remain cancer free. All I know to do is take care of my self the best way I can. I have an 11 year old daughter and I plan to dance at her wedding.

Mary Ash
Indianapolis, IN

Lessons From A Bald Chick

I was diagnosed with breast cancer during my yearly mammagram when I was 45 years old. My mother died from breast cancer and I have five sisters, so my diagnosis completely rocked our world. A friend immediately went out to look for a book to teach her how to help me through the ordeal. No such book existed.

I wrote a book, Lessons from a Bald Chick, to help the cancer patient through the cancer experience, as well as to teach others how to help the patient by what to say and not say and what to do and not do. The book is a humorous book about a serious topic. I decided to give the royalties from the book away to individulas and organizations battling cancer and started a business for this called Bald Chick Ministry.

Since the book's release I have been asked to speak to organizations for doctors, nurses, survivor support groups, book clubs, churches, women's groups, and ministries. I recently shared the book with our governor's wife!

The book is available through, Barnes & Noble. com,, and Bookstores will order it using this ISBN: 978-1-60145-726-4.

When life hands you lemons...........write a book!

MaryBeth Hall
Covington, KY

Vivian's Story

I was 35 when I had a base line mamogram , my mother's sister had breast cancer in her left breast first then her right. So I had a mamogram and it show micro califications in my left breast. But no Dr. had told me this until I was 40 and had both sides mamogramed. Then they said they would watch it every 6 months for change. So I went back after 6 months, nothing had changed.

In Dec. 2001 I was due to have both sides done so I went in and I felt a lump on my left breat, but I didn't think much about it, I had very large breasts and they were fiberous. But then I kept feeling it and the next week they called and said I would have to have another mamogram and ultra sound. Then I focused on the lump and it was the day after christmas when I went back and I knew in my stomcah something was not right. The lump was changing and I could feel it. After that appointment they sent me straight to the surgeons office and there it was two areas ,one mass and the other micro califications. I had a sterotactic biopsy done and the test result were in that both areas were cancerous.So I had my left breast removed and 4 rounds of chemo, reconstuctive surgery, and breast reduction on the right side. I have had 3 different implants on my left side and it still is not right.

But through this journey I have learned a lot about myself ,my faith, my familly & friends. I have meet wonderful people and made new friends along the way. I discovered how strong I can be, to take charge of my health,to always count your blessings.

Vivian Ringold
Maple Grove, MN

Breast Cancer Survivor

I am 73 years old and I am a cancer survivor. I was diagnosed with cancer in my left breast in June of 1997. My left breast was removed in July of 1997. Then in May of 2005 I had to have my right breast removed. I am doing great as I take my medication every day now.

Dora A. Murphy
Denton, TX

You Can Survive

I found a lump while having a shower. I had just returned to work after suffering post-natal depression. My little boy was 17 months old and my mum had died from cancer 10 weeks before he was born. I had a left-side mastectomy on the 17th of December 2003 and came home. 0n the 23rd of December, I still had my drains in, but as a single mum was adamant I would be home for Christmas. In 2004 it was decided I should have 8 chemotherapy sessions and 15 radiotherapy sessions. I have had no other problems and have even gone on to have another baby boy in September 2008. I was 32 years old when my cancer was diagnosed. I am now looking forward to my reconstruction and a breast reduction. The only way is forward and I'm enjoying life to the max. Roll on the big 40 --!

Nicola Rochelle
Rochdale, United Kingdom

Don't be afraid or Thanks to my 'sisters'!

In April 2008 , I was diagnosed with Breast Cancer. My first reaction was tears and fears. Cancer is a nasty word, it is synonymous with all that is evil and out of control, that did not help my attitude any so I decided to refer to my cancer as crap. That I can handle! Thankfully, I was blessed with a wonderful team of medical experts who were instrumental in changing my attitude from one of fear to one of knowledge and empowerment to beat this crap.

I had a lumpectomy, followed by chemotherapy and radiation. The thought of chemotherapy had me scared witless, but you know what? It was not very bad. Chemotherapy has changed from what I remembered my father went through in 1980. Yes, I lost my hair, food tasted like cardboard and I had no energy but I did not get sick once! I want to thank everyone who works in the medical industry to improve the care for cancer patients.

I want to thank each survivor who went before me to give me courage; you are the sisters I always longed for when I was growing up. It surprised me that there were so many because they had been so quiet about their survivorship. Many survivors do not want to make a big deal out of their survival, but we need to be vocal, we need to celebrate life and show just how much breast cancer affects our lives.

Lynn Carlson
Des Moines, IA
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