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I'm Moving On!

I was diagnosed on September 30, 2015 with Triple Negative, Grade 3, Invasive Ductal Carcinoma. We had to leave on a planned vacation, knowing I was awaiting biopsy results. Our flight landed and my phone rang with the call about 20 minutes later, confirming what I already knew in my heart. My husband and I handled that moment the best we could, considering we were driving down the road in our rental car with our two awesome boys, ages 12 and 13. We all cried and in hindsight, it may have been perfect timing because we held it together as much as possible to let our boys know that everything was going to be okay. We had traveled to Maryland because my husband was competing in his 2nd Ironman triathlon. An hour after that dreaded phone call, we found out his race was cancelled due to a incoming hurricane. A year of training...all for nothing. It was an unimaginable couple of hours in our lives.

Instead of flying back home, we decided to hop back in our rental car and drive back to Michigan. We were in no rush to face the music. We took our boys to Washington D.C to see the sites and then spent a couple days in Hershey, Pennsylvania. It was now October and Breast Cancer Awareness month had begun the day after my diagnosis. There were pink ribbons EVERYWHERE! But, it was honestly the best way I could think of to spend those few days.

I had a double mastectomy on October 20th and started 16 rounds of chemo on November 16th. I tested negative for any genetic genes, which was surprising because I had already survived thyroid cancer in 2003.

I finished chemo last week and thought it was going to be a quiet one with my husband and boys...until allll my family showed up. Who knew a chemo treatment could end up being one of the best days of your life? It sure was for me. I am one lucky Breast Cancer Survivor!!! God Bless...

Washington Township, MI

Never Thought I would hear those 3 words again

Back in 1995 when I was 35 I had a complete hysterectomy for cervical and uterine cancer. In Jan2016 I had just seen my ob/gyn and was told "congrats you are 20 years cancer free". I was on top of the world till Feb 4 2016 when I had my mammogram and they saw something they didn't like. 4 more images and told I needed a biopsy. My biopsy was negative but my surgeon was not convinced, he was sure I had cancer so he did a lumpectomy on Feb 23 and Feb 29 I got the results and heard those horrible words again. It was invasive ductal carcinoma and also DCIS. 1cm in size, late stage 1 early stage 2 grade 1b. Clean margins and clean lymph nodes. It is HER2neg and ER, PR positive. Oncotype DX score of 7 so no chemo, just 21 rounds of radiation that will be over on May 4, and an oral medication for the next 5 years. I am now 56 and I know that if I beat cancer once I will beat it again. To say I am not a little worried would be a lie but God, my wonderful husband and children and great doctors got me through cancer once and they will get me through it again.

Melinda Conner

Diagnosed with Breast Cancer

I am 50, my bad news were delivered to me on the day of my 50th birthday April, 7th 2016. Not the best gift for big birthday. I take it as sign, that second part of my life I will change completely. I am going to meet with my doctors in the next week. I am going to fight, I have to many plans that are not completed. And I am very determined to complete all my plans. I have the most wonderful family, husband , grown children, and my cousin, whom I never new. She showed to be my strongest rock and all of you ladies that went through your ordeal , you all give me strength and huge inspiration in my journey.

Thank You!!!!!!!

Denver, CO


I found a lump on my right breast on January 4, 2016 - 2 months after my annual mammogram. I immediately panicked and went to my OBGYN. He told me it was nothing but sent me down to radiology "just to be sure". The technician took one picture and left the room only to return with the radiologist that said it looks concerning and that I need a biopsy! I immediately called my sister and booked a trip to Florida!

On January 20 I had my biopsy and two days later heard the scariest words "Invasive Ductal Carcinoma". Stage 1, 1.9 cm, grade 3 and Estrogen Receptor Positive (10%). From there it was a wild ride of getting THREE opinions and finally sticking to one center where I found myself a great team. March 23 I had a double mastectomy - my choice because I never wanted to have this happen again! I was never so afraid in my life for surgery, it was my first surgery ever and I had no idea what to expect. It went really well and I honestly felt great after. The pain was manageable and I was up and around after a few days! I was ready to start my injections that would lead to my reconstruction in a few months!

April 1 I was told my pathology results - the 1.9 cm, grade 3, stage 1 tumor was in fact 4 cm, grade 3, stage 2 but that all lymph nodes are clear! Great news. April 6 I went for my first saline injections. Painful but again manageable. April 7 I was told I need 8 rounds of chemo. The words I prayed for months not to hear! Now my reconstruction gets put on hold, I am terrified of what will come, losing my hair, the impact this will have on my life but I am ready to fight because I know I am not alone. NO ONE IS ALONE IN THIS! We have each other and that is why I wanted to share my story. WE WILL NEVER STOP FIGHTING!

Nancy Salvatici
East Windsor, NJ

44 el # de la derecha la veces que me han dado cancer y el de la izq. las veces que lo he vencido

Dios es grande y maravilloso, aqui estoy contando mi historia 2012 aparecio el cancer carcinoma ductal invasivo etapa 3 pecho derecho, Quimoterapia maxectomia y radiacciones, marzo 2014 regresa el mismo tipo de cancer en el pecho derecho, termine el tratamiento cirugia, quimoterapia y radiacciones, para Diciembre 2014 el cancer a regresado de nuevo en el pecho derecho quimoterapias, cirugia y radiacciones termine el tratamiento y para diciembre del 2015 el cancer regresa que se le conose como metastasis en el brazo y paleta derecha y otra ves cirugia radiaccciones y quimoterapia, ya se me olvidaron cuantas quimoterapias y radiacciones llevo llevo 5 cirugias. yo les doy un consejo vallan al doctor cada año, haganse sus tocamientos (jajajajaa) haganse el mamograma es muy importante para que no pases por lo que yo estoy pasando no se lo deseo a nadien

Dios me ha dado esta fuerza y esta tanquilidad para seguir luchando

Aqui hay dos caminos el rendirse o luchar y yo en todo este tiempo e luchado gracias a mi esposo Leo y mis hijas Leslie y Litzy que me han apoyado en todo

Lizeth Alanis
West Olive, MI

almost a 20 year breast cancer survivor

January 2017 I will be twenty years breast cancer free for those newly diagnosed if I can beat this you can like I said in past submissions you take the cards you are dealt in life meaning you can't change out your life cards like you can your cards in a poker game you are playing if you are playing poker and you want to get a better hand to win the pot in the middle over all the other players you can do that but you can't change out your life cards like you can your cards in a poker game even though you would want to.

Donna Schiro
Merryville, LA

I will be a 2 time winner

In May of 1996 at the age of 38 I heard those words, "You have breast cancer". I was diagnosed with stage 0 DCIS...Total radical mastectomy and 19 lymph nodes removed. Ny surgeon said he wanted to give me the best chance for survival. My children were 12, 7 and 3 All the lymph nodes were negative for cancer. No follow-up treatment and I survived 20 years without cancer. I went to my surgeon every 6 months for years and then was told that every year would be fine. I also saw an oncologist every 6 months.

In February of 2016 I heard those words again, You have breast cancer". I was speechless. This time the recurrence came back with a vengeance. Stage 4 breast cancer with metastasis to 5 spots on my bones. I was and still am speechless. I feel that when Dr's are speaking to me they are speaking to someone else. How could this have happened a 2nd time? Oh, I forgot to mention that the cancer came back on the same side that I have no breast.

I am a fighter and will continue to be one. My cancer is hormone positive and HER2 negative. A good combination I am told for the medication I will be taking.

My Dr's at the Cancer Treatment Center in Philadelphia refer to this as a chronic illness that will have to be managed for the rest of my life. I intend to have a long life and be a winner for the 2nd time.

I have a positive attitude and know I will beat this damn thing. I have too much to live for!!!! Children to be married and grandchildren to meet and lots more years with my husband.

Marlayne Sick
Monroe, NY

First Mamo's are important !

At 41 I went for my first mammogram for a base line. I knew how important they were since I had worked in Radiology scheduling. Now I was the Administrator of a health insurance company, 2 teenagers and supporting a husband, his father, and his brother that did not work. I get a phone call asking me to go get a ultra sound, same day was asked to go over and get a biopsy. Then I get a phone call at my desk at work and was told over the phone that I had cancer and needed to come in and schedule a surgery. Quite a shock! After a mastectomy and Chemotherapy my husband left me. 10 reconstruction surgeries later. It's been 14 year and life could not be better!!

Susan Alms
Ottawa, IL

Having breast cancer for the 2nd time

The first time I had it was 15 years ago and I was 44 years old. I had ductal carcinoma in situ stage 2, I had chemo 6 times and after I finished the chemo I had reconstruction on my right side. Things where going good for the 15 years. I would go every year for my check ups and mammograms. Well in Oct of last year (2015) I went for my yearly mammogram and they found something and advised me to see my dr. I had already make my yearly appt with the breast cancer dr. When I took the film to my dr. he didn't like what he say and advised me to have my left breast removed. It was cancer again, but this time it was only stage 0.

After having cancer the first time I started working with the American Cancer So. I visit other women ( and 1 man) that have had surgery and talk to them and take them gifts. I also started a cancer support group at my church. I enjoy talking to the ladies and giving them hope that there is life after cancer. And now I can prove to them there is life after having cancer twice.

Thank you

Donna Johnson
Conway, AR

One day at a time

May 2014 was diagnosed with Stage 3 Breast Cancer and I had a lot fears running tho my mind cause I was 59. But I had battled my Breast Cancer and I had won that fight. I had a lot of prayers and I had hope on my side that help me with this fight and I had won my battle. So to this day I'm a Surviver and have been Cancer free for 15 months. There a little saying Cancer had touch my Breast and I kick butt.

Dee Goodnight
Whitefish, MT
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